Showing posts with label self. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self. Show all posts

6.09.2010

Circling the Wagons

"You can't circle the wagons if you ride alone."

Rarely does a week go by that I don't get a call from a really worthy non-profit organization that is struggling with raising money. After a while it begins to tug at my heart, because I don't have the time, energy or resources to help most of them.

There is one thing I can recommend that would make a world of difference to most non-profits. Learn how to collaborate. So many of the programs I get calls from are small, one or two staff organizations who have a passion for a specific area of ministry or social service. The problem is they aren't alone in their vision, there others doing similar and profitable works, but we have a lot of lone-wolf cowboys who don't want oversight, collaboration or input from anyone else. That's a problem - it leaves you few options when the economy turns south, wrongly suggests that you have all the answers to a particular problem, but mostly it speaks to an air of arrogance and independence.

I have found one way to cut down on the phone calls. Now when I meet with an organization I start by discussing collaborations. I give them a list of agencies they could work with and foundations who like to see partnerships. You wouldn't believe the resistance I recieve from those organizations who refuse to partner with anyone else - they don't want to sacrifice even the smallest amount of autonomy.

Sadly, I have even seen this in departments within an organization. Rather than look at the greater good, the value of partnerships, the benefits of shared resources, the reduction of management and operational costs these small agencies continue to struggle, forge ahead alone and resist the positive change that can come from working together. The saddest thing of all is that these agencies lose sight of the mission - to serve others. It is truly heartbreaking to see a valued organization that begins to put their own interests ahead of those they serve.

4.13.2010

Investing in me.

Yesterday I waded through the investment opportunities for my 401K retirement plan.  I haven't always been the best at putting away for a rainy day, but being 50 allows me to contribute make-up investments each year.

As I thought about investing, how much I could afford to live without to fund my retirement and the implications of an expanding government; it all brought me back to a basic concept - we are all investing in ourselves. Each and every day we make contributions to the kind of men and women we are going to be in the future.

As I sat at breakfast I went through my morning ritual of making a list for the day (if I don't, I get sidetracked). This morning, as I looked it over I had to ask myself if this was just another list, or would I pursue it like a predator after it's prey.

So just for today, I am going to invest in me. I am going to read something uplifting, spend a little time in meditation and prayer, accomplish some things on my list so when night falls I plan to enter into the sweet sleep of a person who took advantage of the day God has given him.

2.25.2010

Embracing Freedom

At times our fight for freedom and liberty are collective efforts. We band together against an oppressive government, we lobby for the restoration of certain "inalienable rights," or we join a rally, political party or PAC.

The real embrace of freedom however is a personal choice in how we live. It is the difference in wanting to do a thing and having to do it. Most mornings I choose to get up and go to work because I love what I do - it makes a difference and helps people. For a good portion of my life I struggled to meet others expectations. I let other people put me in their little box and I tried to live accordingly.

One of the most liberating revelations I have had in my life is learning to say - NO! No, I don't have time right now. No, that isn't in my area of expertise. No, I just don't feel like it. That sounds a little indulgent, but I am afraid that all too often in life we err on the other side through surrender. I am worried about what people think if I don't serve. I am afraid I won't be held in the same esteem if I say no. I don't want to be viewed as selfish, or seeking my own needs.

Serving out of desire, out of passion for what you do not only gives you an individual sense of liberty and freedom, it also allows your greatest gifts to rise to the top. Your freedom is not bestowed on you by government,  your employer or even your family. Freedom comes when you choose to have an untethered mind, to know and understand who you are and live to your potential - not the potential or ideas others have defined for you.

Trent Wheeler